Hello Lihong,
Such event is not available in the Kendo UI Grid. A workaround would be to check the condition in the columnReorder event and trigger the reordering of the column manually again to return it at it's old index. Here is small example of this approach.
Regards,Dimiter Madjarov
Telerik
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